Fickle Friday #1!
So I decided to have a weekly post, specifically every Friday GMT, about what would you do in certain situations or who would you go for and stuff. Long story short, I would like to debate..yeah debate although I know I suck at these things but oh well. Life.
Kamisama Hajimemashita!
Reminder: This post would contain spoilers so if you haven't read the latest chapter(probably around chapter 116 and above) and do not want to be spoiled, you know the drill *sniff**sniff* but I beg you to read it and come back to read this post! I'll be waiting!!
The newest arc of Kamisama Hajimemashita started off with this, Tomoe wanting to be a human once again. The reason is still the same, it's because he wanted to be with Nanami, to understand her more, and he can't live without Nanami specially when the time comes where Nanami would die of old age. As for Nanami, she is opposed to this, the reason being about Tomoe's Lifespan will be short as the human, he never lived his life as a human before, and there would be a lot of inconveniences because a human being is fragile.
So back to the topic, if you are Tomoe with the same circumstances, would it cross to your mind to become human to be with the person you love or go as for to change into a human. How far are you willing to go to change yourself for your loved one?
First of all, I never been in love myself to that point but I have a fair share of crushes, tehee. But if I were in Tomoe's place, I wouldn't want to become human because I still want to be me. I know some might say that he will be still the same Tomoe, his personality won't change, his love for Nanami would not change, and only his 'genetic make up' (I don't know the right word for this but you get it, right? demon to human) would change. However in my case, that would still be a change and I personally think that it would inevitably cause a domino effect wherein his personality in the end would change also. Also, maybe part of my reason that I still want to be me, it's because I love what I am and I don't want to change it and I hope that my partner would love me for who I am. As for Tomoe's case, I don't know whether he loves himself.
Another reason is that Nanami already loves the current 'Fox' Tomoe, she already accepted him(which I personally consider a person who is hard to find. A person who would love you despite your flaws or genetic make up for his case) for what he is, so if I were him the more reason I would not want to become human but Tomoe's is as complicated as humans. We always want something that is out of reach for us. *sigh*
He also have another reason which is to be able to understand her more. So he thinks that when he turns human he will be able to understand more. Dude, even us human can't understand ourselves that much, and up until now men still don't completely understand women. So your reason is invalid.
So let's delve in more! the lifespan issue of his. Well this kind of issue is already been used in almost any kind of supernatural romance and up until now, I still don't know what side I'm on but on this case, I would side where I want neither of them to change. The reason being Tomoe already survive the first one although it gave him so much hardships or drama but think about it, in the end they still end up together. I'm not saying that I want him to go through that ordeal again but I want him to realize that he was able to get through; however, some of you guys might say that is the reason why he wanted to become human, he experience a lot of setbacks(almost died) that he does not want to go through it again(which is actually one of his reasons) which just like he said, this is how weak demons are (e.g. one God who turned into a tree after his loved one left or die and suffered for a long time) but I don't know. For me, I guess he should stop using the excuse of saying how he weak they are and change this kind of perspective, yes rather changing into human I want him to become independent which I would consider would be a change for the better. I know its hard to lose the one you love but you got to accept it. You just have to accept it that there will come a day, one of you will have to go and the one left will have to endure this loneliness. The one who died would never wish for you to be depressed so I would advice that the one who is left living to be strong and rather be caught up in the past, look more forward to the future and hope that soon, you would meet again. So in other words for me, its all about perspectives.
How about you guys, what's your opinion on this, tehee :)
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